Nov. 27, 2025

Reflections on Wine, Family, and Finding Passion in Life’s Unlikely Journeys

Reflections on Wine, Family, and Finding Passion in Life’s Unlikely Journeys

I came into the studio today to get some wine and organize a few things. I also wanted to test the internet connections because yesterday I had two show fall apart from internet issues. It seems they were on the guests side.

As I started testing, it turns out I had something to say (shocker).

Absolutely! Here’s a warm recap of the episode from my point of view as the narrator:

In this episode, I took a moment to share both some personal reflections and a few heartwarming stories from the wine world. As Thanksgiving approached, I found myself in the office, grabbing wines for our family gathering, and reminiscing about the journey that brought me here—especially how grateful I am for my father’s decision to offer me the Wine of the Month Club before selling it. I never planned on being in the wine business, but looking back, I’m thankful every day for the path it set me on.

I also spoke about the tight-knit fraternity and sorority within the wine trade, highlighting friendships with people like Veronique Sanders and Alexander Van Beek of Bordeaux’s Chateau Giscours. Their support—taking my niece Lisa in as an intern at Château Batailley—perfectly illustrates how the wine world feels like an extended family. Lisa’s journey from hesitance to a newfound love of working in the vineyard reminded me that the passion for wine truly begins in the soil.

The episode was also a chance for me to talk about upcoming podcasts, including my recent interviews with figures like Nick Karavitas—who’s been in the wine business for 45 years—and Walter Georis, the musician behind the iconic surf film, The Endless Summer, who now owns a winery. It’s always fascinating to see the serendipitous ways people find themselves in the wine industry!

I reflected on the two very different sides of the wine trade: the premium, terroir-driven wines that express a unique sense of place and time, and the mass-market, consumer-driven labels found in supermarkets. I made it clear that I value both, but I have a special place in my heart for the wines that reflect honest craftsmanship and their natural origins.

Lastly, I expressed pride in helping my nephew navigate the world of wine as he builds his corporate career, teaching him that understanding wine isn’t just about the drink—it’s about opening doors and connecting with people around the world.

All in all, this short episode was my chance to share gratitude, celebrate the connections made through wine, and offer a few human stories along the way. Cheers and Happy Thanksgiving!

 

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So I was trying to set the other camera up so that I wouldn't have

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such a big nose. But I guess it's inevitable. Of course, I've been dealing with

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this all my career in life, having many nicknames

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that dealt with the size of my proboscis, meaning like a

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toucan because of the beak on the bird, the schnoz from Jimmy

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Durante, big bird, you name it. I've had the

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nickname if it dealt with a large nose.

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And you know, they call it a Roman nose because it roams all over my

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face, which I use that joke endlessly while we

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were in Rome, actually. Anyway, I'm in the office today. Happy

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Thanksgiving because I came to get some wines for our Thanksgiving

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event at my brother in law's. And one of

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the young ladies that's going to be there is my niece Lisa,

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and she was the intern at Chateau

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Bailly. So naturally I am taking some Chateau

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Bailly. And so this kind of reflects on, you know, Thanksgiving.

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We should reflect on what we're grateful for and what we're

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blessed to have. And I have said this many times on the show,

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but I just, you know, you can see in the background here my

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father at his wine shop. And I had no intention

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of being in the wine business. When I graduated from usc, I went to

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Corporate America, which, thank goodness it formed a certain opinion

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of how to run a business, at least at that level. And then I went

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on to a very small software company that only had a fishbowl full of business

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cards and a two line phone in my apartment. And we started to sell

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software. And so those two extremes set me up for

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the moment. My father called and said, listen, I've got an offer

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here at Wine of the Month Club and just thought maybe you'd take

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a look at it before I sell it. And

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I thank him every day for that. And I

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talked to my brother and sister this morning. We had a little joint call here.

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And it was just kind of refreshing to reiterate that to both

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my siblings that this was truly a blessing for

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me and to be in this industry and because of people

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like Veronique Sanders, Van Beek,

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Alexander Van Beek, her husband, who runs Chateau Guiscord, who just got 100

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points in a wine, by the way, and Veronique, who I

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saw recently in la, and it's like family.

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This is a person whose native language is French. She's across the

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pond, so to speak. She has a different life completely than what we have

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here in Southern California. But man, when we get Together,

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it's like a family because we understand each other, we understand the

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strifes of this business, we understand the love of this business,

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the passion it takes to be in the wine trade. It's a.

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It's a slugfest. And then they took on Lisa as an

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intern. And what's really, really fun about that story, and I can't wait to

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talk to her more about it today, is she said,

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uncle Paul, you know, they want to put me in the vineyard. Now, this is

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when Veronique had sent her offer to Lisa to

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come intern in June of 2025 to, you know,

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work at the winery. And as you know, not much goes on

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in a winery during June. It's all planning for harvest and, of course,

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marketing and event planning. But

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she said, uncle Paul, I wanna. They wanna put me in the vineyard. And I'm

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like, honey, girlfriend, if you want to be a winemaker, you're going to be in

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the vineyard. That's where it starts. That's where wine is.

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That's where it's made. We can just kind of get out of the way as

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winemakers. And so, of course, when she got to France, they put her in the

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vineyard. And. And she now loves being in the

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vineyard. And I think that's really cool that she came

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around to that way. And so going back to this, this

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sort of fraternity sorority of the wine trade,

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it is interesting. I've had some really great phone calls,

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podcasts coming up. I did two yesterday, which both got

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interrupted from Internet problems. One of them was Nick

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Karavitas. He's been in the business 45

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years. He's done all of it, and, wow, it was becoming

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really interesting. So I can't wait to finish that one. And the next one was

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even cooler in the sense of its

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arrival. To me, a good friend of mine, I grew up on Palos

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Verdes, who was one of my surfing buddies, and we played ball

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together. He was Googling late,

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early in the morning, like two or three in the morning, couldn't sleep. He Googled

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the Endless Summer, a movie that came out in

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1968, which was a great anthology of the surf

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culture, the worldwide surf culture, not just Southern California.

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And he determined that the writer of

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the music, which is an iconic song, owns a

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winery in Carmel Valley. Walter Gioris.

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And I reached out to the winery via their information email

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address and was able to procure this podcast that went off

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yesterday. We got about 25 minutes in before his Internet prevailed.

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route to the wine trade. And I guess that's

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kind of what the point is. It tracks everybody

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and anybody. You could be from any walk of life and

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land on the appreciation and the passion

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for a proper glass of wine. And in this

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guy's case, he was from France. He's from Belgium. In Belgium. I

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don't know if you know the Belgium. Their native language in Belgium is French.

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And he ended up in Southern California, San Clemente, heavily

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accented, as he puts it. And here he is writing

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one of the most iconic theme songs, one of the most iconic

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surf movies in the history of surfing. And

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it's still, it's. I haven't even gotten to the wine business yet. We were 25

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minutes on how this happened for him as a, as a

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musician. So I'm looking forward to finishing that one, too, which is coming up as

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well. So look for those two podcasts regarding

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just two serendipitous ways to get to this place. And the passion, though,

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and that's the kind of the beauty of this. You've sensed the passion

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through all of it. And one of the points I was making with Mr.

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Caravides and I had to be on my toes to articulate what

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I'm trying to say here. Having spent so much time

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with iconic brands like Chateau Bailly and tasting with

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Mouton Rothschild. The other day, I had a tasting with Christian Moex, one of the

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great wine families of the world. You

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tend to feel like there's this two parts of the wine trade, two things going

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on. Of course, we always want wine to be sold, that it's a

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consumer product. If you make it at home for yourself, that's different.

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But if you're going to be in the public eye, you need to sell it.

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That's how you stay alive. But given that

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there seems to be the premium

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sector, which of course, in all products, there's a premium sector and then there's this

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fighting sector where you're out in the street slugging it out on the

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supermarket shelves. And I don't think they're, they're

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mutually exclusive in their marketing, in their,

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their demographic. I have collectors that buy from me

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still only these premium vintages, but they also

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are, are separated by this

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honesty of what the, what wine is. And

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you know, you can, if you want to slug it out in, in, in the

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wine world and, and create a wine that's for Gen X like,

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like Whiny Baby is, and get bought by Gala. That's great.

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From a business standpoint, that's great. But certainly it doesn't Speak

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to this terroir. Driven, leaving

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my senses and moving to Bordeaux. As I sit

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in Southern California having a glass of Chateau Bailly or whatever, I'm drinking

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two different things. And I think it's okay to separate them. I think it's okay

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to define them

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differently because you can't put them all in the same bucket and then

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say, this is how we're gonna approach the business. And so there's this whole idea

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of rethinking the wine trade, you know, whatever that means,

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because it's hampered by the fact that it's only once a year. It's hampered by

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the fact that you really don't know what's going on. And years and years

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ago, somebody had written an article about the fact that wine

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needs to come around to the consumer. We need to produce what the consumer

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wants. And I think that's what you see on the supermarket shelf and the whiny

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babies of the world and cans and all the different format

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changes that have occurred because of contemporary marketing.

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So I don't. But I don't agree with the concept. If we need to come

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to the consumer, wine is probably the only product in the world, if not a

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handful, that can. That in its true form

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is exactly what you get from the vineyard. It's what you

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get from the soil. And if

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you're making an honest wine, then that's what you're making. And you're representing

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yourself as this is what it is. This is what I'm trying to reflect. Any

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good winemaker will tell you I'm trying to reflect what was given to

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me. And that

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then does not become a consumer driven, or at least

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a consumer demographic driven product. It no

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longer is. Well, if they like sweet, we better get them sweet. If they

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like dry, we'll get them dry. If they want Muscat, let's get a Muscat. It's

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not driven by that. It's driven by

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this sincere need

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to produce what's been given from the ground, from

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the earth. And therein lies what I think the

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essence of honest wine is the

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essence of a

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representation of a place and a time. And the first

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time I ever heard that line was from Mike Salachi at Opus One.

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Wine is to represent a sense of place,

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of course, terroir, in a sense of time, that vintage.

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And I think that's. That has to be remembered. And I'm so proud

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of one of my nephews who is in corporate

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America, which I remember well when I was at Xerox, one

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of the largest sales organizations in the world at the time. And

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I kept telling him, you know, you need to understand wine

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so that when you go to the corporate dinner table that you are

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can take that menu and you have a pretty good guess of what you're going

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to get because you understand label reading, you understand the appellations of French

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Bordeaux or Burgundy or California Napa, and you understand the

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makers. And that takes a little bit of time. But

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man, don't you think from a career standpoint, if you're with an

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international organization and you're with, who knows, maybe some French,

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French business people are Korean or Chinese and you're able

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to decipher a wine list at one of the great steakhouses in Less in America,

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I'm thinking, wow, that's a pretty cool thing. And so I gave him his first

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test yesterday, sent them some entry level

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Bordeaux I think are really good and just start

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asking questions about them. And so I'm excited for that to happen.

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Anyway, that's today's little short short podcast for this

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afternoon. Cheers and

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Happy Thanksgiving. And I look forward to

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bringing more wine stories and human stories

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to the table for you to enjoy and be

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entertained and learn. Cheers.